GoldenBoy [Partecipante] 6 Inviato 11 Gennaio 2005 Condividi Inviato 11 Gennaio 2005 Eccovi un bel post preso da www.seductionlair.com, per non dimenticarsi qual è lo spirito con cui ci si relaziona con il mondo femminile Riker_AUT writes: All around christmas you could see happy couples everywhere. I just took a look at my company ( ~ 25 people between 20 and 35 y.o) and I'm the only Single here. All the other guys and chicks got regular partners, I know some of the girlfriends and a few of them are quite hot. Now, the funky thing for me. None of these guys ever heard of concepts like "attraction" or "bridging" or "day2". They dont know "C&F" or how to calibrate, most of them would probably faint if they had to do a cold approach in a public place. Yet, I'm the only one not getting laid here? Something doesn't compute. How is that possiple? Everyday, tons of guys who dont know ASF are getting laid by their girlfriends or fuckbuddys or ONS's. Yet some of us here, even after learning and lots of field experience, are struggling for even a KISSCLOSE. What is the whole damn difference? Back to my company sample here (okay, 25 is not a very representative sample, but the best I have) these guys are not what we call "naturals". They aren't even really alpha or dominant. I dont get it...I really dont. Why is this shit so complicated for me and many here, when all around us "standard guys" are getting laid regulary? Kineti[C]harm writes: Because you are thinking too much and concentrating too much on what you learn here... Those guys are doing one thing right: INTERACTING! They are meeting women, talking with them at a NORMAL LEVEL. They aren't thinking "Now I have to regulate my bodylanguage angel by 10% while lowering my tonality by an octave, run the adoption routine to pass hookpoint, then semi-isolate to a darker spot so I can kiss, thus pumping buyingtemperature enough for isolating her back home to fight LMR and then laying her, PHEW!". They are interacting, TALKING, getting to know girls, having fun. Just about _ANY_ guy can get sex just by hitting enough parties and talking to enough women. If you also notice, most "regular" guys, those that are happy enough to get laid once in a while at a party, those guys very often end up in "something" with that girl afterwards. Very often I see those guys getting into some "semirelationship" either LTR or FB or STR with that girl. Because they are just following the order of things. Boy meets girl, boy talks to girl, boy and girl has fun, boy and girl kisses, boy and girl might have sex or exchange number, boy and girl starts dating or hooking up again because that's normal... Most of the guys that don't do that, there aren't actually many that I know, have a completely different frame of mind when it comes to it all. This is right on the money. Most guys might not be able to pull of the "Fast Seduction" or whatever, but they are good at interacting. They enjoy women, and like to have fun with them, and when it all comes down to it, women will sleep with a guy they have fun with. A big part of the seduction community most people forget about is that the techniques and tactics discussed aren't really about helping to get you laid, they're about improving your skills at interaction. They're tactics meant to help you ENGAGE other people and connect with them on a human level. Too often, people get caught up on the "I gotta get laid" mentality and miss connecting with people all together. If you're not having the success you want, perhapse you should re-examine what your focus is. Link al commento Condividi su altri siti More sharing options...
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